How To Win Her Back – With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics
Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. I dare say some of your friends may look down on you using these tactics but they don’t count. What does count is you getting her back.
You don’t actively notice it but psychological mind games are in use every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.
Sneakily get her to return your call
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren’t bills! So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.
This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. She’s curious as to why you want to thank her, and then pride kicks in because you’ve thanked her. We all love being thanked. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. The fact is the letter weaved its magic and she did as expected, she called you back.
I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are some other neat little moves just like this one.
Play on her good memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.
Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.
Curious jealousy
Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.
As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. If it works right she starts to feel that it should be you & her out and not you & your friends.
These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it’s not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.
What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. If you don’t have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.
Have a look at what I think are the best couple systems to help you to win her back at my website…
