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Happiness is made for everybody. It makes no difference if you are gay or not. We are all different and we should learn to tolerate each other. Often gay people are scared to talk to their friends about this. They think that they will not understand. After you tell the truth about yourself some people might not like you anymore. You should not worry though because your real friends will never leave you just because you are in a gay relationship.

Keep in mind that your friends already suspect that you are gay. If they are spending a lot of time with you they already know. Probably they don’t dare to ask you. You are the one who should be honest about this. Invite them all at a coffee and tell them. You might be very relieved to see that they have no problem with this. They might even admire you for your courage.  Probably they will have a lot of questions for you. Now it’s the time to be completely honest.

They might need a few days to think. After that you will be able to see if they are real friends or not. If they care for you they will support you and be happy for you. Some people might ignore you after knowing the truth. Don’t be sad about this. They didn’t deserve to be your friends. You only need friends who care about you and accept you after you come out.

Tell your friends that you are gay when you are ready to do so. You don’t have to force yourself.  Don’t put yourself a deadline for coming out of the closet.  Try to relax as much as possible. It will not be an easy thing to do. This is a secret you had for many years. You need to have a lot of courage.

The next step will be to introduce your life partner to your friends. If they accepted you they will accept him also. Your friends can become his friends too. Make sure you let your friends know that you are the same person. Tell them that nothing will change.

Your friends might think that you will not be the same person anymore. Show them that nothing will change. Meet your friends as often as you used before. They will be glad to see that you are happier now. May be your life partner will become their friends too. This would be the best situation.

You are free to love and be loved. It’s not easy to find true love. You should take advantage of every good thing in your life. This is the best thing it could happen to anybody. You have to show your friends how happy you are.

Never give up fighting for your happiness! It’s important to tell everybody about your gay relationship. Only this way you will be able to enjoy life!

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Do you think a gay couple should be able to have children and raise a family? What if they are financially secure and in an established gay relationship, perhaps even legally married? I do not know your answer to this question but I am willing to bet that whether you are gay or not, you have an opinion on the matter.

There are many couples who wish to start families as gay parents just as there are heterosexual couples with the same desire. The big difference is that a gay couple first has to confront other people’s thoughts on the matter and know they are strong enough to handle negative perceptions.

If a married heterosexual couple decides they want to start a family it is perceived as normal and no-one questions their desire to become parents. If there are any fertility issues, a heterosexual couple can expects to get help relatively easily.

The matter is a little easier for a lesbian couple than a homosexual couple because there exists the possibility for one of the lesbian partners to biologically conceive herself. Many lesbian couple tackle the problem with artificial insemination with the aid of a donor sperm or they can go for IVF treatment in which theirs or a donor egg is implanted after being fertilized outside of the body.

Homosexual couples have fewer options. They may choose to opt for surrogate motherhood in which a woman elects to bare the child on their behalf. She can be inseminated with the sperm from either partner. Otherwise, a gay male couple must go for adoption which poses a mountain of challenges especially other people’s preconceived ideas.

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Do you think a gay couple should be able to have children and raise a family? What if they are financially secure and in an established gay relationship, perhaps even legally married? I do not know your answer to this question but I am willing to bet that whether you are gay or not, you have an opinion on the matter.

Just as there are heterosexual couples with the desire to become parents, there are also many thousands of gay couples who yearn to start a family in the same way. The drive for parenthood naturally affects people whether they are gay or not. However, gay couples have to confront other people’s perceptions in a way that heterosexual couples do not.

It is generally considered perfectly normal for a heterosexual couple to want to have a family. If they have been together long enough they are often questioned why they don’t have children yet. A heterosexual couple can easily go for help if they face issues of infertility.

The matter is a little easier for a lesbian couple than a homosexual couple because there exists the possibility for one of the lesbian partners to biologically conceive herself. Many lesbian couple tackle the problem with artificial insemination with the aid of a donor sperm or they can go for IVF treatment in which theirs or a donor egg is implanted after being fertilized outside of the body.

Homosexual couples have fewer options. They may choose to opt for surrogate motherhood in which a woman elects to bare the child on their behalf. She can be inseminated with the sperm from either partner. Otherwise, a gay male couple must go for adoption which poses a mountain of challenges especially other people’s preconceived ideas.

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