National Coming Out Day Is Important For Many
On October 11th national coming out day gives thousands of members of the GLBTQ community a chance to tell their friends, family, and mostly themselves that they are part of this community. It’s not a time for (ready for a laugh?) for recruitment for new members. The secret handshake is not plastered all over a secret website and there is no hidden door that will convert you once you walk in. This is about a community banding together to help support others through a difficult process. If you have been wondering if you are ready to come out as a gay man or lesbian, consider this day as a special opportunity.
National coming out day is also about celebrating who you are and who you are growing into. It’s about loving yourself for who you are and learning that you are in control over your own happiness. It is most definitely about refusing to live the life of a lie and reaching out toward the homosexual community that is ready to offer you acceptance and support.
There are thousands of people who are on the brink of changing their lives by refusing to give the power of their own happiness and comfort over to those who choose to judge them. You may very well be gay or you might just be questioning your sexual identity. This doesn’t mean that you have to hand over your life for judgment to those around you.
Moreover, they often deny themselves the right to date, find love, become involved in a happy and nurturing life long relationship, and discover their own sense of self.
Many lives are changed by admitting not only to those who care about you but to yourself the truth about who you are. Most people who go through the coming out process feel as though the heaviest of weights has been lifted. The liberation of self is like slipping directly into your own skin.
It’s not easy to come out. It can feel like you’re about to walk into the lion’s den with a hunk of raw meat strapped around your neck. No matter what your worst fears may be, coming out gives you something that you just don’t have right now. The sense of self and identity that you get to grow into an eventually even be proud of. It’s more about admitting to yourself that you have nothing to hide, because you don’t.
Giving yourself some definition isn’t necessary in order to be happy. However, most of us find that this definition helps us mold ourselves into something that is truer to our own hearts, and there certainly isn’t anything wrong with that. National coming out day is a day of support for those who are ready to come out and those who want to know that there are others going through the same issues at the same time. All over the world national coming out day is leading to a greater push toward gay rights and gay equality.